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40 Questions to Ask Yourself As You Wrap Up This Year

40 Questions to Ask Yourself As You Wrap Up This Year


I’m big on reflection! I love to look back at the year and ask myself different kinds of questions to see where my life went. Did I do all the things that I wanted to do this year? Was I pursuing things that made me happy? Was I being true to myself? Here are 40 questions that you should ask yourself before the year is over! Get a pencil and a notepad!

On Self-Love

  1. What does self-love mean to me?
  2. Did I exhibit self-love and self-care to the best of my abilities this year?
  3. What will I do in the coming year to ensure that I’m taking care of myself?
  4. Did I check-in with myself in times of sadness, depression and anxiety?
  5. What did I do to check-in with myself? Did these methods work? Why/why not?
  6. Did I ensure that I set boundaries for myself and others? Did I ensure to keep up the best level of self-care possible?
  7. If my self-care routine is solid, what will I do to maintain this routine?
  8. I feel the best when I _____________.
  9. Am I around others who respect my need to take care of myself?
  10. What does self-care look like for me in the next five years?

On Relationships

  1. What are some new relationships that you made this year that you cherish? Why?
  2. Are there any relationships that may need some evaluation?
  3. What did you do this year to keep the relationships that you value in tact?
  4. Who do you speak to when you need to laugh, cry, talk? If you feel you're alone, what will you do to change that?
  5. Are you willing to make changes in the people around you to fit your self-care necessities?
  6. Which relationships make you feel most alive? Supported? Important? Valued?
  7. Which relationships make you feel depleted?
  8. Are there any relationships that need mending?
  9. What will you do differently next year to cultivate and keep relationships that matter the most?
  10. What is the most special and important relationship that you have?


On Career & Money

  1. Are you happy in your career?
  2. What is your dream career? If you’re already in your dream career, what would you do to things even better next year?
  3. If you’re not in your dream career, what is stopping you from doing so?
  4. What makes you most happy about the work that you do?
  5. Can you see yourself in your career in the next five to ten years? Do you want to be in your field that long?
  6. Are you happy with your money situation, whatever it may be?
  7. What could you do to better your finances?
  8. Do you have money goals set for the next year?
  9. Do you have a budget set up for next year? Do you have a plan to stick to it?
  10. What are your account balances? Get a notebook out and write down the year’s ending balance and what you would like for it to be next year.

On Life

  1. How many trips did you take this year?
  2. If you didn’t take as many as you would have liked, why not?
  3. What was your biggest takeaway from the year?
  4. What are your top three goals for next year and what are the dates that you want to have them done by?
  5. How will you execute these goals?
  6. What made you most happy this year?
  7. What made you most sad?
  8. How are you spending New Year’s Eve?
  9. What are your New Year’s Resolutions? How will you stick to them?
  10. What do you want most for 2018?


What are some other questions that you like to ask yourself before the end of the year?

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